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Friday, March 11, 2005

happy dancin' house butch handDyke Media Friday: Real? 

Been thinking about my favorite scene-to-date from Season 2, The L-Word:

Episode 2; Tina in that sexy gown/slip, crying when the memory of Bette's loving laughter floats through her bodymind while she's pleasuring herself after the Lap Dance.

That was so real. Grief and desire, pleasure and pain, memory and the present all braided together in fiction as they are in reality.

Real.... The L-Word's portrayal of West Hollywood Gay Town Lesbiana is delectable to this viewer — all of it — but some of it is so not real. Like, where are the butches? Lotsa kikis and that's cool. Quite a few femmes and that's well, delectable. But hey! Where are my buds? I mean, gorgeous-lanky-hip as she is, is Shane butch? She's definitely attracted to femmes, which might be a clue, but everybody in The L-Word is attracted to femmes, right? OK, maybe not Kit. Love her flirtation with Ivan, how it's developing, the issues at play. And OMG, Season 1's last episode with that flirt song in the parking lot. Seduction is seduction is seduction ... is hot!!! But where I come from, Drag King does not equal butch — not that anyone's pretending it does, L-Word wise. And Bette a butch? Not on your life.

I dunno, Is Shane butch?

In any case, wanna play Dyke Media Friday? Post something on your blog (subject DMF/Real?) and either trackback to this post or leave a comment, whether you blog or not.

I know it's audacious of me to start a meme when I'm only two weeks into this blog. Oh well. A woman's gotta do what a woman's gotta do....


Haloscan: | Blogger:
Comments: Shane is as butch as you're gonna get on a show that while produced by a lesbian is designed to target not us but the 18-35 straight male demographic. Straight boys don't want to deal with any flavor of butch that is more butch than Kim Basigner trying to pass as a guy in 9 1/2 weeks.

And this is why I don't watch the L-word. I'm not there, and I'm not even what a lot of people would consider all that butch (and, BTW, not all of us on the butch side of center go for femme, m'dear [winks]). I'm tired for settling for leftovers vis-a-vi seeing myself in the art. Until they can give me what I want, I'll make my own. Regards.
 
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